Why Is It So Difficult to be an INTJ?

Society never designed norms for the outliers. Norms were designed with the majority of the population in mind!

Let’s consider what are some norms in society these days. Here are 2 generic norms:

1. Did you know that scissors and guitars are mainly designed for right handed people? Have you tried using your left hand to cut a piece of paper with a “normal” pair of scissors? Try it and see if it feels weird to you. Everyone knows that the scissor blades ONLY work when it is operated by the right hand because of the way the blades are designed and oriented. One actually needs a special pair of left-handed scissors to cut up things with their left hand. However, as the majority of the population is right handed, right handed people tend to take scissor usage for granted. As right handed kids, you may have teased left handed kids for not being able to cut things properly during art lessons.
2. If you were born and bred in a small rural township in the United States and spoke only English for the past 30 years, would you feel comfortable living and working the next 20 years in a rural village in China (or anywhere else in the world that did not speak English as their native language)? Would you find it difficult to live there and get used to their cultures and customs with ZERO AID from the local Chinese? Ditto if you were a native Chinese…